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What is the history of nonbinary folks? What are the differences between genderqueer, gender fluid, and enby people? We’ve got you covered.

Mercury Retrograde in Leo is coming — are you ready?

The popularization of the hookup app has grown not just among gay men, but the horny community at large.

Uranus in Gemini wants us to dialogue, not monologue.

Online discourse is divided about he/him lesbians, but they’ve always been a part of sapphic spaces.

Venus in Gemini is here to cause necessary friction.

Season two of Netflix’s reality dating show is back with another wave of sapphic mess.

Producers on the U.K. version of the show previously suggested that LGBTQ+ contestants pose a “logistical difficulty.”

In a post-Roe v. Wade world, photojournalist Ale Pedraza Buenahora wants to show that reproductive justice is gender-affirming care through the Repro Masculinity zine.

Cancer season has begun, and its time to focus on your intentional home.

Your queer forecast for Cancer Season 2025, based on your zodiac sign.

Here’s everything you need to know about the rich history of the queer subculture.

Cancer Season is here to establish routine.

Them spoke to bi+ people about their personal experiences and how the term “bisexual” has evolved over the decades.

It’s time to hunker down and focus on Cancer’s wisdom.

Jupiter in Cancer will shift your focus to inner growth.

A starting point for exploring the wide world of WLW and MLM stories in anime and manga.

Gemini season will ignite your week.

From medieval Europe to Zanzibar, the strap-on dildo has deep lore.

Lavender marriages have a long and nuanced history.

Dive into the history of the deep rift in trans online spaces.

We break down the history and meaning of the ubiquitous queer slang term.

The BateOff host also breaks down the critical difference between gooning and bating.

We break down the origins of the term and the debate over its usage.

“Fisting at home is not like in porn!"

A lesbian comes to an important realization about herself at a bloodplay event.

For some people, pronouns aren’t about specifying which ones they want to use, but instead about welcoming any and all.

Because you need a break.

The nuances of kathoey identity and the term “ladyboy” are best understood in historical and cultural context.

“These connections are crucial to making prison time easier, for creating safety, and for stealing joy in a place that isn’t designed for it,” Renea Baek Goddard writes.

Workout vicariously with your newest online gym crush.

Plus, insight on the “bottom diet," how long douching should take, and why you shouldn't do it in a bathtub.

“In a way it’s like the person is trying to get you hooked fast, but it’s usually about control rather than connection or real love,” experts tell Them.

Legal experts broke down how to change your gender marker across government documents for trans folks across the country.

Harm reduction specialists explain the effects, risks, and least harmful use of nitrous oxide.

The Midwest Princess continues to speak openly about the toll that fame is taking on her.

Concerned that your voter ID doesn’t match your registration or you’ll be turned away? Read on.

The trans musician and record producer expressed her gratitude for the heartfelt responses.

In a profile, the Broad City star said that being pregnant “highlighted both the masculine and feminine inside of me.”

The only “right time” to transition is whenever you want to.

How medical intervention helped one writer discover that comfortable bottoming was possible after all.

Trans advocacy groups have pledged to continue challenging the restriction.

Trans folks, people of color, and multi-sexual people have lower perceived life expectancy, according to a new brief by The Trevor Project.

Amid an onslaught of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, these student organizations are more than just safe spaces.

The Executive Director of the LGBTQ+ civil rights organization National Black Justice Coalition sat down with Them to explain the ramifications of the decision.

Self-care should be a way to ground yourself, not empty your wallet.

Taking steps to protect yourself and your community ahead of protesting is crucial. 

During an especially brutal year for LGBTQ+ rights, it's important to gather with community. Luckily, there's more ways to do so than ever before.

Elly Belle explains how to handle anxiety, stress, and internalized homophobia after coming out. 

Ending any relationship is hard, let alone one with a therapist. Queer mental health experts explain how to know when it’s time.

Them and Teen Vogue spoke to five organizers across the country about what they’ve learned, and what you need to know.

When lawmakers, school administrators, and coaches won’t support trans kids, it’s up to us to stand up for their rights.

After being bullied and closeted for so many years, I held my first queer love up to an impossible standard. 

Building queer community isn’t always a linear process. This week, columnist María Saldana tackles loneliness and queer friendship.

From dunking your head in water to yoga, these expert recommendations can help calm you when you need it most.

Social anxiety can make community building and queer nightlife feel overwhelming. Here are some tips to help.

While keeping my transness a secret kept me safe, sharing my truth helped me see I was so much more than just a woman.

If you’re going out with a Scorpio, good luck.

These tips will help you shut down negative comments, listen to your body, and stay sane.

Surviving breast cancer as a gender-nonconforming person of color brought me a unique kind of struggle — and surprising opportunities.

People often assume I’m uber-masculine just because I’m a Dom. There's way more to me underneath the leather.

As a gay, Black dancer living with HIV, being single during the pandemic helped me realize I was treating myself as a sexual object.

“Even if ‘I’m neutral about my body!’ doesn’t seem like something to shout from the rooftops, that’s actually kind of the point: Body neutrality meets me where I am.”

My eating disorder was the only thing that gave me control over my appearance, until I realized I was losing myself.

If we call everything queer, then nothing will be.

While you may feel pressure to jump into action, putting your well being on the line is not an obligation.

Through massage, breathwork, bodily awareness, and more, these techniques will help you decompress and unwind during these stressful times.

Through interviews with over a dozen expert queer healers — including traditional psychologists, sex therapists, personal trainers, reiki masters and hypnotists — we’ve compiled a guide for self-care during these scary times.

The song is an impassioned plea for a lover to get over their bad attitude.

The L Word co-stars share advice for maintaining a lifelong queer bond.

The singer opens up about the “shame and guilt and fear and anxiety” of sharing her new single with the world.

The nonbinary musician reflects on his solo career as he pivots toward collaboration.

Exploring everything from transition to tarot, the actress tells an unflinching story of her past selves.

The comedian tells us about surviving in the standup scene, guesting on Abbott Elementary, and writing his first cookbook.

Watch the music video premiere for the singer-songwriter’s new single “I’m So Bored.”

The actress also reveals who she’d want to see make cameos in an L Word reboot, including Chappell Roan.

The orchestral pop quartet’s new album, produced by Julien Baker, finds the group reaching for cinematic heights.

The musician formerly known as Ms. White is back with her first new song in seven years.

“As uncomfortable as it is, sing through the frustration and sing through the annoying part.”

Etta Friedman and Allegra Weingarten talk with Them about their new LP Welcome to My Blue Sky.

The singer-songwriter opens up about exploring Korea’s queer nightlife scene and reading Infinite Jest.

Celia Laskey’s Cover Story follows a lesbian publicist helping an actress stay in the closet.

Harriet Tubman: Love in Concert finds the abolitionist working with a producer “loosely based” on Bob to record an album.

The musician opens up about finding love with Julien Baker, intense fandom, and her new album Forever Is a Feeling.

Good rom-coms are rare. Good queer rom-coms are even rarer.

Our guide to the best LGBTQ+ films on Kanopy.

Because thinking is overrated.

For when you get sick of big-city women falling in love with small-town men.

From One Day at a Time to Vida, make time for these must-sees.

Them contributors hand-picked their favorite queer horror films.

From Margarita with a Straw to the new Queer as Folk, some creators are finally getting it right.

From nihilistic road trips to lesbian vengeance, this list has everything.

From Desert Hearts to Derry Girls, these are March must-sees.

From Brother Outsider to Bessie, watch these queer films this February.

Shira Erlichman's work captures a bevy of experiences with bipolar disorder, whether in the doctor’s office, in letters to her family, or in her life as a queer woman.

In The Importance of Being Wilde at Heart, two teens who share a mutual affection for Wilde come together in the face of colonialism and marginalization.